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Resources

​The following resources are not an exhaustive list, but have been recommended by various members of our community based on their personal experience with death, dying, grief, and renewal.


Books
Bearing the Unbearable Love, Loss, and the Heartbreaking Path of Grief by Dr. Joanne Cacciatore
Being Mortal: Medicine and What Matters in the End by Dr. Atul Gawande
Briefly Perfectly Human: Making an Authentic Life by Getting Real About the End by Alua Arthur
Die Wise: A Manifesto for Sanity and Soul by Stephen Jenkinson
Dying to Be Me: My Journey from Cancer to Near Death to True Healing by Anita Moorjani
Grave Matters: A Journey Through the Modern Funeral Industry to a Natural Way of Burial by Mark Harris
Heartspace: Real Life Stories on Death and Dying by Cathy Brooks Edwards
Heartspace: II Real Life Stories on Loss and Renewal by Cathy Brooks Edwards
I’m Still with You: Communicate, Heal & Evolve with Your Loved One on the Other Side by Sherrie Dillard
Jane Brody’s Guide to the Great Beyond: A Practical Primer to Help You and Your Loved Ones Prepare Medically, Legally, and             Emotionally for the End of Life by Jane Brody
Man’s Search for Meaning by Viktor E. Frankl
Memoir for Margot by Lyle Estill
7 Lessons from Heaven: How Dying Taught Me to Live a Joy-Filled Life by Dr. Mary C. Neal
Smoke Gets in Your Eyes: And Other Lessons from the Crematory by Caitlin Doughty
Tear Soup: A Recipe for Healing After Loss by Pat Schwiebert and Chuck DeKlyen
The American Way of Death Revisited by Jessica Mitford
The Pagan Book of Living and Dying: Practical Rituals, Prayers, Blessings, and Meditations on Crossing Over by Starhawk and M.           Macha NightMare
The Smell of Rain on Dust Grief and Praise by Martín Prechtel
The Tibetan Book of Living and Dying by Sogyal Rinpoche
Who Dies? An Investigation of Conscious Living and Conscious Dying by Stephen and Ondrea Levine

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Digital Media
• An Act of Love: Talking with Your Family About Serious Illness and End of Life | Transitions LifeCare | youtube.com/watch?                    v=NWJhny4dsYw
• Being Mortal | Dr. Atul Gawande for Frontline | youtube.com/watch?v=lQhI3Jb7vMg

• Dying for Beginners | Dr. Kathryn Mannix | https//www.youtube.com/watch?v=ayMhA1pRLeY
• Staring Down Fate |wildsides.org/staring-down-fate-als-red-wolves
• The Art of Dying Before You Die | Dr. Aditi Sethi | https//www.youtube.com/watch?v=xjxp9Sy13Ro
• The Last Ecstatic Days | thelastecstaticdaysmovie.com
• The Order of the Good Death | orderofthegooddeath.com
• What Happens as We Die | Dr. Katherine Mannix | youtube.com/watch?v=v9f6twy70iM

 

 

Grief Support
• Death Faire | sanctuaryattheburrow.com/deathfaire
• End Well | endwellproject.org
• Golden Willow Retreat | goldenwillowretreat.org
• heart2heartnc | heart2heartnc.com
• Heartward Sanctuary | heartwardsanctuary.org
• Queer Death Club | queerdeathclub.com
• The Compassionate Friends | compassionatefriends.org

 

 

Psychedelics
• End of Life Psychedelic Care | eolpc.org
• Multidisciplinary Association for Psychedelic Studies | maps.org
• National Psychedelics Association | yournpa.org

    Publications
     • The Beginner’s Guide to Psychedelics by Matt Zemon | mattzemon.com
     • The Veteran’s Guide to Psychedelics by Matt Zemon | mattzemon.com

     Films
     • DOSED The Trip of a Lifetime | donate.dosedmovie.com/d2
     • Fantastic Fungi | watch.fantasticfungi.com
     • How to Change Your Mind | michaelpollan.com/films/how-to-change-your-mind/

     Digital Media

     • Psychedelics Are Catalysts, Not Cures | Matt Zemon | youtube.com/watch?v=I97hjy2ezT8S

 

Death Doulas
• Cathy Brooks Edwards | listeningtoyoursoul@gmail.com

• Holly Lux-Sullivan | heartwooddeathdoula.com
• Holly Menard | hollyeoldoula.com
• International End-of-Life Doula Association | inelda.org


 

Advance Directives
• Five Wishes | fivewishes.org

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Green Burial
• Green Burial Council | greenburialcouncil.org

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Green Burial Cemeteries and Services in North Carolina
• Aldergrove Woodworks | Roxboro, NC | aldergrovewoodworks.com
• Bluestem Conservation Cemetery | Cedar Grove, NC | bluestemcemetery.org
• Carolina Memorial Sanctuary | Mills River, NC | carolinamemorialsanctuary.org
• Endswell | endswellfuneralhome.com
• Mordecai’s Meadow at Historic Oakwood Cemetery |Raleigh, NC | historicoakwoodcemetery.org/green-burial
• Sanctuary at the Burrow | Moncure, NC | sanctuaryattheburrow.com
• Shrouding Sisters | shroudingsisters.com

 

 

Green Burial Shrouds
• New Karma for Old Threads | newkarma.oldthreads@gmail.com
• The Art of Dying | artofdying.earth

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