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Resources
​The following resources are not an exhaustive list, but have been recommended by various members of our community based on their personal experience with death, dying, grief, and renewal.
Books
• Bearing the Unbearable Love, Loss, and the Heartbreaking Path of Grief by Dr. Joanne Cacciatore
• Being Mortal: Medicine and What Matters in the End by Dr. Atul Gawande
• Briefly Perfectly Human: Making an Authentic Life by Getting Real About the End by Alua Arthur
• Die Wise: A Manifesto for Sanity and Soul by Stephen Jenkinson
• Dying to Be Me: My Journey from Cancer to Near Death to True Healing by Anita Moorjani
• Grave Matters: A Journey Through the Modern Funeral Industry to a Natural Way of Burial by Mark Harris
• Heartspace: Real Life Stories on Death and Dying by Cathy Brooks Edwards
• Heartspace: II Real Life Stories on Loss and Renewal by Cathy Brooks Edwards
• I’m Still with You: Communicate, Heal & Evolve with Your Loved One on the Other Side by Sherrie Dillard
• Jane Brody’s Guide to the Great Beyond: A Practical Primer to Help You and Your Loved Ones Prepare Medically, Legally, and Emotionally for the End of Life by Jane Brody
• Man’s Search for Meaning by Viktor E. Frankl
• Memoir for Margot by Lyle Estill
• 7 Lessons from Heaven: How Dying Taught Me to Live a Joy-Filled Life by Dr. Mary C. Neal
• Smoke Gets in Your Eyes: And Other Lessons from the Crematory by Caitlin Doughty
• Tear Soup: A Recipe for Healing After Loss by Pat Schwiebert and Chuck DeKlyen
• The American Way of Death Revisited by Jessica Mitford
• The Pagan Book of Living and Dying: Practical Rituals, Prayers, Blessings, and Meditations on Crossing Over by Starhawk and M. Macha NightMare
• The Smell of Rain on Dust Grief and Praise by Martín Prechtel
• The Tibetan Book of Living and Dying by Sogyal Rinpoche
• Who Dies? An Investigation of Conscious Living and Conscious Dying by Stephen and Ondrea Levine
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Digital Media
• An Act of Love: Talking with Your Family About Serious Illness and End of Life | Transitions LifeCare | youtube.com/watch? v=NWJhny4dsYw
• Being Mortal | Dr. Atul Gawande for Frontline | youtube.com/watch?v=lQhI3Jb7vMg
• Dying for Beginners | Dr. Kathryn Mannix | https//www.youtube.com/watch?v=ayMhA1pRLeY
• Staring Down Fate |wildsides.org/staring-down-fate-als-red-wolves
• The Art of Dying Before You Die | Dr. Aditi Sethi | https//www.youtube.com/watch?v=xjxp9Sy13Ro
• The Last Ecstatic Days | thelastecstaticdaysmovie.com
• The Order of the Good Death | orderofthegooddeath.com
• What Happens as We Die | Dr. Katherine Mannix | youtube.com/watch?v=v9f6twy70iM
Grief Support
• Death Faire | sanctuaryattheburrow.com/deathfaire
• End Well | endwellproject.org
• Golden Willow Retreat | goldenwillowretreat.org
• heart2heartnc | heart2heartnc.com
• Heartward Sanctuary | heartwardsanctuary.org
• Queer Death Club | queerdeathclub.com
• The Compassionate Friends | compassionatefriends.org
Psychedelics
• End of Life Psychedelic Care | eolpc.org
• Multidisciplinary Association for Psychedelic Studies | maps.org
• National Psychedelics Association | yournpa.org
Publications
• The Beginner’s Guide to Psychedelics by Matt Zemon | mattzemon.com
• The Veteran’s Guide to Psychedelics by Matt Zemon | mattzemon.com
Films
• DOSED The Trip of a Lifetime | donate.dosedmovie.com/d2
• Fantastic Fungi | watch.fantasticfungi.com
• How to Change Your Mind | michaelpollan.com/films/how-to-change-your-mind/
Digital Media
• Psychedelics Are Catalysts, Not Cures | Matt Zemon | youtube.com/watch?v=I97hjy2ezT8S
Death Doulas
• Cathy Brooks Edwards | listeningtoyoursoul@gmail.com
• Holly Lux-Sullivan | heartwooddeathdoula.com
• Holly Menard | hollyeoldoula.com
• International End-of-Life Doula Association | inelda.org
Advance Directives
• Five Wishes | fivewishes.org
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Green Burial
• Green Burial Council | greenburialcouncil.org
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Green Burial Cemeteries and Services in North Carolina
• Aldergrove Woodworks | Roxboro, NC | aldergrovewoodworks.com
• Bluestem Conservation Cemetery | Cedar Grove, NC | bluestemcemetery.org
• Carolina Memorial Sanctuary | Mills River, NC | carolinamemorialsanctuary.org
• Endswell | endswellfuneralhome.com
• Mordecai’s Meadow at Historic Oakwood Cemetery |Raleigh, NC | historicoakwoodcemetery.org/green-burial
• Sanctuary at the Burrow | Moncure, NC | sanctuaryattheburrow.com
• Shrouding Sisters | shroudingsisters.com
Green Burial Shrouds
• New Karma for Old Threads | newkarma.oldthreads@gmail.com
• The Art of Dying | artofdying.earth